Female Empowerment Photoshoot For Gold Coast Water Baby

Here’s is Kate’s story in her own words:

“Before now I thought photoshoots where for people having babies, getting married or family photos. I thought people took portraits for work, for paid modelling and advertising. I didn’t think that being single was a reason to do it. I’m also not photogenic, I don’t take a lot of selfies or photos when I’m with friends. I’m usually the one volunteering to take photos of the group.

Then I started seeing some short videos and hearing people only 10-20 years older than me saying they wish they had taken photos of themselves when they were younger, they wish they had appreciated how hot they were when they were younger. I recently noticed how much I had aged since I hit my 30s, I noticed a few things changing, getting older.

At that time my life was also messy. It was near the messy end of a toxic relationship. I was in a toxic share-house and had a toxic work environment. I used to feel confident, I used to feel beautiful and strong and healthy. I used to take care of my body and spend time with friends and doing things I loved. I lost all of that. I used to be adventurous, but my comfort zone had shrunk. I was so stressed and exhausted that I ate badly, I stopped going to the gym, I stopped making time for my hobbies, I put on a lot of weight, and my self-esteem was the lowest it had been in years. I needed to make big changes to my life, to my mindset, and I needed motivation to get back to eating healthy, exercising and feeling fit and healthy again. I decided it was time to book a photoshoot—not for a celebration, not for family, but just for me, despite feeling ugly and afraid.

I always believed that some of the best life experiences come from outside your comfort zone. At the time there was nothing further from my comfort zone than a photoshoot. Yet the photoshoot was perfect to help me be accountable and it motivated to eat healthy and exercise again. It was perfect to help prioritise rebuilding my confidence and self worth. And it was perfect being underwater, a place where I feel comfortable and relaxed.

In the lead up to the photoshoot I made a lot of changes. I moved house, I changed work, I finally got my own dog (a dream for years). It was a period of growth and development. Between the time I first emailed Liz and the photoshoot date my life dramatically change. I had taken accountability, grown and learned from mistakes. I had moved on from the past. I was fit, I felt physically and mentally healthy and strong. I felt confident, sexy and free. I felt I could be my true authentic self without fearing judgement. In the end the photoshoot was timed perfectly, it marked a time in my life when I felt accomplishment after adversity.

I have always loved the ocean. I love just swimming under waves, the rock of a boat on the water, that feeling of being completely submerged in water. My love for the ocean amplified after a stressful life event: I had a spinal cord injury. My outlet had always been sports—I played AFL, did boxing, motocross, all the extreme sports I could afford. Then in 2015 I had a spinal cord injury from a tumour at the top of my neck. My life changed and although I am grateful I was able to learn to walk again, I lost all the sports I did as my outlet. This is when my love for the ocean grew. I started freediving, I learnt to hold me breath and relax. Underwater I don’t feel limited by my spinal cord injury; I feel relaxed, I feel present and at peace. It felt very fitting to do a underwater photoshoot.

I felt very excited In the lead up to the photoshoot. Everything in my life was coming together. I had practiced underwater several times, I had been eating healthy and exercising regularly. Photoshoot date had been a huge motivator to help me get out of an unhealthy rut.

I loved everything about the photoshoot. Liz was so kind and warm, Renee (the assistant and makeup artist) had a fun happy vibe, the pool temperature was great, and the wardrobe selection was amazing. Liz and Renee helped me feel so relaxed. I loved it. It was a great experience. I’m really happy that I tried different outfits. I’m happy that I practiced looking relaxed underwater. I was pretty tired at the end of the day so the only thing I would do differently would be to stay in Noosa that night instead of driving in traffic all the way back to the Gold Coast.

The photos are beyond my expectation. They are amazing. It makes me smile every time I see them. My friends and family absolutely love them, too, they think it’s like art. The timing of the photos was also after getting through some really hard times that I had to be strong and resilient to make it through. Seeing these portraits in my home every day makes me feel strong, confident, sexy and free.

—Kate

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